We, as humans, have a tendency to blame each other. Nobody wants to take the blame on themselves. We usually see people blaming situations for their failure. Some even blame others for what they are today, which is something as illogical as burning your finger and blaming the flame.
Blaming someone or something is an easy escape. No explanations, no guilt and no regrets and very comfortable.
Pushing away your mistakes can never get you success. It is natural to overlook the mistakes we commit and focus on the situations that supposedly did not support us.
All of us must have once failed to complete the homework we were supposed to submit the next day and must have thought about almost all the excuses in the world to persuade the teacher to postpone the submission or escape from the punishment.
You think you were not able to complete because you had a power cut in your place for the whole day, or you weren't well for the day, or you had to be out for the day to attend a wedding. You just ignore the fact that you had other six days of the week to complete the work you were assigned.
Our inner self knows the truth. But still, we lie to ourselves to escape the blame.
Just rethink about all the situations when you have blamed others for your failure. Be it your failure in exams or your failure in any relationship. You can surely find the mistakes you deliberately overlooked. Accept your mistakes. This takes half the courage. Take your time to correct your mistakes. And not repeating them is the most important of all.
Not all mistakes can be corrected. Most of them can be.
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