Understanding Life

We, as humans, have a tendency to blame each other. Nobody wants to take the blame on themselves. We usually see people blaming situations for their failure. Some even blame others for what they are today, which is something as illogical as burning your finger and blaming the flame. Blaming someone or something is an easy escape. No explanations, no guilt and no regrets and very comfortable.  Pushing away your mistakes can never get you success. It is natural to overlook the mistakes we commit and focus on the situations that supposedly did not support us. All of us must have once failed to complete the homework we were supposed to submit the next day and must have thought about almost all the excuses in the world to persuade the teacher to postpone the submission or escape from the punishment.  You think you were not able to complete because you had a power cut in your place for the whole day, or you weren't well for the day, or you had to be out for the day to atte...

Pain. Everybody must have experienced pain at some point of time. we must have experienced pain due to the smallest of smallest issues like- feeling deceived when your parents who once promised you a chocolate but later broke their promise at the age of 6 or 7 to your break up a week back or the death of a person you know or death of a pet you love the most. Experiencing pain is something that comes by the beautiful path of life that helps you grow. When you look back, you understand that the pain you experienced has made you a more matured person than before. Just evaluate your life. Look back for once. You observe that you have survived all the pain you thought would end your life. You never thought you would be able to face the class after the thorough bashing by your teacher in your 8th grade and live that terrible day! But then, you are here completely fine and the incident long forgotten. You might feel that terrible things are like a 'stop' to your life but ...

Love yourself. No matter what, just love yourself. Accept who you are and what you are. Know the real you and love yourself. Love yourself for the good things in you. Respect yourself.  Stand up for yourself. Don't wait for other to love you. If you don't love yourself, you can't expect others to respect or love you and treat you any better. Talk to yourself. clear your own differences. You are the only one to know exactly what you want, what you think, what you really need and what you really are from the Inside.  Be close to yourself.  Know who you are and most importantly, be your own best friend. Only then you can be happy even when you are alone or in a crowd and make people around you happy. Internal agitation leads to restlessness and takes away peace. Love yourself and stay in peace. Be the person with qualities you love to see in others. Correct the bad things you have done and try not to repeat them. Spread love. Always.

You are not a loser. Do not be your greatest enemy by calling yourself a loser. There can be no one who is good at nothing. Everybody is good at SOMETHING. There must be something you are good at and TRY. Try till u achieve. You don't need to achieve huge things. Tiny achievements are huge source of encouragement. You don't need to be good at anything material. Mental peace of trying to find yourself is an achievement. And that sense of achievement is un-imaginable. You will one day surely figure out the reason of your existence. The path of self-discovery is beautiful. You will learn more about yourself and this gives you peace. This gives you the encouragement to achieve greater things. This gives you happiness. But whatever happens, NEVER lose hope.